Shabbat musings

Today I had a visit at NYU's Multiple Sclerosis Center. I've been going for a few months, because of this tremor and associated symptoms. I have a clean MRI but was diagnosed with an Essential Tremor. But there are symptoms he can't explain, so he is sending me to a movement disorder/Parkinsons specialist, whom I see next month.
So I'm walking to the Shuttle to get back to Times Square, and I had just cried openly on the streets of NYC on the phone to both my mother and my father, because I'm hoping this med combo decreases them and because they are REALLY bad. It's noticeable. Anyway, I'm walking and I'm sure I didn't look super happy, and I saw the Chabad people and somehow got into a conversation with one. He asked if I was Jewish and I said yes - I'm not going to lie - and we got to talking. He asked me if I light the Sabbath (Shabbos) candles and I said no, so he pressed some into my hand and asked me to light them tonight, because it's a mitzvah. He also gave me the parsha of the week. For some reason, I am taking this as a sign. I usually ignore those people. but I cannot lie if I'm asked my religion - I can't, I won't - and somehow I was reminded today of the simple joy of lighting Shabbat candles. So at 4:46pm, I will be saying the Sabbath blessing and having some challah.

Sometimes I do miss being "more Jewish." I miss not going to synagogue, and I really should read the portion of the week. There are some Orthodox traditions that are beautiful. I went to an Orthodox kindergarten and Conservative day school until high school. We welcomed the Sabbath every friday at the end of the day. I understand the modesty traditions of the more Orthodox; when I was in Israel I didn't hesitate to pull on the long gauzy skirt I bought for the occasion over my shorts, and take one of the shawls to cover my shoulders and arms. That was at the Kotel.

For some reason, I am taking this as a sign. A sign to hold onto hope and faith, and not get too discouraged. And maybe stop and light she Shabbos candles every week.